The first time I tied her hair back. I waited four months to do it and then realized it
would've been long enough to do it two months ago.
the aftermath
I feel sorry for her having to put up with Jackson's shenanigans. This stage is so frustrating because he can't understand why it's not ok to play rough with her. He doesn't understand how it's ok to play a certain way by himself or with mommy and daddy but not Mika. For example, he loves to play hide-and-seek with blankets, so he thinks if he puts blankets on Mika, she can play too.
I thought he was sleeping and I walked in on this.
And he doesn't understand how he can crawl all over us but not her. He is a pretty rough little dude, and I have caught him putting blankets and pillows on her face, crawling on her, sitting on her, etc. I have to either make bathroom breaks last mere seconds or put her in her car seat and put her in the bathroom doorway to make sure Jackson isn't hurting her. I showered with both of them in the house without Paul, and that went alright, but I probably won't do that again. On the flip side, he can be very helpful and go get toys for her to play with if I'm busy cooking or something. And they love playing together.
Montessori-style tummy time when Mommy's in charge (no commercial tummy-time contraption with wild prints, just a plain towel and one wooden toy).
Tummy time when Jackson's in charge- bring anything that can roll to her towel.
Jackson loves playing with "nka" (Mika), cooking, washing dishes in his "sink," trying to dress himself, helping with Mika. I am reading some Montessori books and he loves the activities I make him.
practicing pouring
This kid LOVES cooking.
shredding cheese
He loves setting the table with his new place mat that shows where everything goes.
practicing scooping beans from bowl to carton and carton to bowl
sorting shapes
*Disclaimer- I'll be totally honest that while it looks like I'm doing lots of nice activities with the kids, the TV is still on a lot. I'm still trying to figure out how to balance these two kids.
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