Tuesday, June 13, 2017

Jackson at 6 Years

Height: 3'8"
Weight: 44 lbs
Clothing size: 6
Shoe size : 11/12
Favorite shows: Sophia the First (though he won't admit it), Bill Nye the Science Guy



Some of my favorite things he says:
Crisper Columbus = Christopher Columbus
rabiowi = ravioli
What took you so short? (Opposite of "what took you so long?")
He talks about an hour of time as being in the ones, the twos, the threes, etc. He tells us he wakes up in the sixes.

When I think of Jackson, I think accurate, precise, methodical. He brushes his teeth for exactly two minutes. Time should be told exactly to the minute and not rounded up to the next multiple of five, as most adults have the habit of doing. He washes his hands for exactly twenty seconds. The first time we played Battleship, he started guessing at A1 and went over one space to the right each guess. He takes his shirts out of the drawer from the left row and going front to back. (I fold the KonMari way. Once I realized he did this I would move each row over to the left and fill in clean shirts on the right side so that he would cycle through all the shirts instead of wearing the same row.)

He also likes to count all 250+ lockers at Costco.

His perfect day would be to play Mario and board games all day.

I hate that I nagged him so much about hand washing and being clean because now he doesn't want to do anything if he knows he will have to wash his hands afterwards (like pet animals). He generally likes to be clean and inside playing some type of game or doing something math related. He also likes to play solitaire.

He can get on a swing and start swinging with no one pushing.

He loves climbing trees.

He is shy around adults but doesn't have a problem going up to new kids on the playground and engaging them in play.

He loves legos and still loves dinosaurs.


He used to be able to sit still and focus for long periods of time when he was smaller, but now his body is in constant motion all day. He'd basically be doing handstands on the couch while reading. It's really hard for him to sit still during meal times.

He hasn't lost any teeth yet.

He usually goes to bed around 8 and wakes up between 6-6:30.



School stuff:

  • He finished all of his first grade work before his birthday. Last summer he was reading Bob Books and similar books that had lots of consonant-vowel-consonant words. We spent all kindergarten year on first grade easy readers. Most of the time he complains when it's time to read a book, but I know he is proud that he can do it when he's around other kids his age and older and is able to read like them. He likes to read signs now. He also leans over my shoulder and tries to read my texts and emails.
  • Kind of dreading him going to school. He's a perfectionist and the grading system is going to kill him. He's the kind of kid who will come home upset about making a 98. 
  • Paul thinks his grades are going to suffer in math because he doesn't like to show his work. He just does it in his head and writes the answers down.
  • He's still learning how to tie his shoes.
  • He has been doing gymnastics this semester. I think he's great at it, but he thinks he's awful and wants to quit.
  • One of the things I liked most about homeschooling was if Jackson got antsy, I could give him breaks to go run around outside. It was also easy to do around our schedule this year since we were traveling a lot. I also loved the extra time Jackson and Mika got to spend together. Sometimes they fight, as all siblings do, but most of the time they get along very well. They are best friends.

Mika at 4 Years

Height: 3'4"
Weight: 37 lbs
Favorite show: Sophia the First
She loves: cooking, baking, cleaning, gymnastics, ballet, singing, skiing, painting, eating, playing in water, being outside, trying to play with insects and animals, hanging out with other girls, princesses, Frozen, getting her nails painted, wearing dresses, playing with baby dolls, playing with real babies, talking to strangers

Things she says:
scara= mascara
whipgwoss/whipstick = lipgloss/lipstick
frozebee= frizbee
It's gusta = Me gusta
fangs = things
cool = pool
cousit = cousin
tipsy roll = Tootsie Roll
Pugwix = Publix
barefeeted = barefoot
foursty = thirsty
Disuney Weorld = Disney World
mashed potatoes = the game Hot Potato
The Crackernut = The Nutcracker
Christmas Before the Night = The Nightmare Before Christmas
howey mowies = she thinks roly polies are called holy molies
Monser Inkers = Monsters Inc.
I need a question! = I have a question
Oh my gosh, Paul. (I guess I say that too much...)
On your march, get set, go!
I can count all the way to Spanish!



She is still overly friendly and goes up to anyone and everyone in public and starts random conversations. One of her latest ones included telling some lady she was going to be five, then six, and so on until twenty-five, at which point she would become a giant and have new parents. Almost everyone is really nice to her and will engage her in conversation. I always apologize because I'm afraid she's bothering them, but almost everyone tells me they don't mind. The only people who do mind are the ones already talking to someone or on the phone, she still doesn't understand that she shouldn't butt into people's conversations. She also loves to hop on one foot and show strangers how she does it.

Sometimes living with Mika feels like being in a horror movie. I'll be working downstairs, start to walk upstairs, look up, and she's just standing in the hallway staring down at me. Sometimes I'll wake up and she'll standing next to the bed staring at me. I'll be downstairs while she's sleeping, hear her scream for me, I'll run upstairs- and then she's asleep. And then my mind plays tricks on me sometimes and I'll be in bed trying to sleep, and I'll swear I hear her footsteps walking up to my bed, open my eyes- no one is there.

She goes to bed with Jackson (he has a full size bed) and sometimes wakes up in the middle of the night needing to see me. Sometimes she talks in her sleep.


She can't wait to grow up. She's always talking about how she's going to grow up and chew gum and wear mascara. She also wants to "scrape her legs" (shave her legs).

She keeps telling me we need to move to a brand new house because her friend Natalie is moving into a brand new house.

She still doesn't understand that Paul is living with us again. She keeps asking him if he's going to spend the night here.

She clicks her tongue a lot when she's thinking.

She uses the big kid swings and she can pump her legs the right way most of the time.


She loves drawing people and rainbows.

She loves trying to be independent. She likes to order and pay for her food by herself when we go to fast food restaurants. When we go to a sit-down restaurant, she can order her food and make extra requests for more to drink and such when the waiter comes back. She is very polite to strangers.

She doesn't understand that you have to pay for things before you leave stores. We went to Michael's and I looked back and she was just bopping along, happily swinging a lunchbox she stole. I tried to explain to her that we didn't give anyone money for that and I made her put it back. I don't know if I put this in a previous post, but I remember going to DSW with her and she put a purse in the bottom basket of the stroller and I didn't know it was there...until I left the store and the alarm went off.

I had Jackson write his birthday party invitations, and I had Mika write her name on hers. So now she "writes invitations" almost everyday and "mails" them to our next door neighbor (she hand delivers pictures she draws).

Sometimes I feel bad for the kids because they really want a pet, but I'm too cheap and lazy for that. (And we're out of town a lot, not dealing with that issue.) She tries to trap ants in her insect house and keep them as pets.

She is still very sensitive and cries at the smallest things. Sometimes she is annoying to be around because of that, but most of the time it is so nice to have her around because she's generally a happy person.


First dance recital

She LOVES ballet and gymnastics. It's pretty funny to watch a room full of three-year-olds try to do ballet. They did some little dance thing where they pretended to be princesses dancing for a prince. They were supposed to curtsy and say, "Your Highness." But she says "Your Highmess." And at first I couldn't figure out where she got that from and I thought she was calling me a mess.

Jackson has a poster of the presidents in his room. Mika likes to point at each president and say, "He's not happy, and he's not happy, and he's not happy, etc."

She loves to play "Gwirl" (Girl). She pretends to be my mom and I pretend to be her daughter. She also loves playing hide-and-seek.

She is so sweet. She is always telling me that she loves me and that I'm a great mom. It's nice to get that recognition from at least one child. She was making me cry one night when she talked for a while about how she picked me to be her mom because she thought I was perfect.