Monday, December 12, 2016

Jackson at 5.5 Years

Height: 44"
Weight: 42 lbs.
Clothing size: 5T/6
Shoe size: 11/12
Favorite shows: Mario, Fairytale Forest, Mighty Machines
Hobbies: video games, playing with friends, math, cooking, baking, making his sister mad

being a model at Auburn

My favorite words:
Multiple-cation = multiplication
woosuawy = usually
concrete minser = concrete mixer


I caved to peer pressure and did one of those chalkboard signs. And then Mika didn't want to be left out of any homeschool stuff, so she got a sign and a bookbag too. (She also broke some $50 statue thing at Hobby Lobby when we went to go get the chalkboards...ugh.)

School Stuff:
We started kindergarten on August 17 and have finished 90 days of school (as of Dec. 11). We do reading, writing, and math almost every day, even on weekends.
(Disclaimer: I realized that this section is going to sound like I'm trying to sell you Usborne. I don't work for Usborne, I just think their brand is one of the best and I buy it often. The Usborne, Kumon, and DK brands are my favorites.)
Math: We do Miquon, and he is almost done with the second book. I try to get him to use manipulatives like unifix cubes or base ten blocks, but most of the time he wants to do the work mentally. He is learning how to use a calculator. He loves doing Kumon books. We also talk about random math things, like very large numbers (million, billion, trillion, etc.). He kept asking me how many zeroes those numbers had, so I eventually just made him a book with numbers from ten to decillion so he wouldn't ask me anymore. He asks me so many math problems, being around him can feel like a twelve-hour long math quiz every day. He has been going through a Monopoly phase for a couple months where we have to play a game almost every day. It used to be my favorite game and now...not so much. But I put up with it because it is excellent addition and subtraction work for single-, double-, and triple-digit numbers.
Reading: He reads from McGuffey readers and random books from the library. I don't know what reading level he's at (I guess first grade?), whatever Dr. Seuss books and similar ones are. Paul and I read to him everyday. Sometimes kids' books, sometimes kid versions of classics. I also bought What Your Preschooler Needs to Know, What Your Kindergartner needs to know, What Your First Grader Needs to Know, and What Your Second Grader Needs to Know. The kids like it when I read to out of those books at meal times. I also noticed that reading to them while they eat decreases bad behavior.
Writing: His handwriting is getting much better. I think a stranger could read his numbers and many of his words. We are going through some workbooks for writing practice and so I can make sure I'm covering my bases with different subjects. We are doing Mastering Basic Skills Grade 1, Brain Quest Grade 1, Comprehensive Curriculum of Basic Skills Grade 1, and Curious George Adventures in Learning Grade 1. I also got him Everyday Success Grade 1 at a garage sale, but not sure if we'll do that one or not.
Science: I usually pull random experiments out of some Usborne books- Science Activities, volumes 1-3 and 365 Science Activities. I try to get Paul to do these whenever he's available because he is better at explaining things. We also do cooking and baking which is great for math and science. We also watch science DVDs. They especially love Bill Nye.
Social Studies: We read books about people and past societies. I got the Usborne Time Traveler book. We read out of that, other books around the house, and books from the library.
Art: I'm sad that he doesn't care as much about painting and stuff and Mika does. We go to art museums and look at books with artwork in them. I got him the Usborne What Shall I Draw? book and we have worked through some of it together. I also got the Usborne pack of Famous Paintings and we have been going through that together. We've also been reading from the Usborne Book of Famous Artists.
Music: He also doesn't care as much about music as Mika does. Although he does really enjoy it when I pull out Usborne's Famous Composers Reference Book and Classical Music Reference Book. It's nicely set up where you can read just enough for a small child's attention span and then scan a QR code to listen to the music it's talking about. I just bought The Story of the Orchestra by Robert Levine and we're going to go through that. I also want him to start piano this school year.
Spanish and French: I borrow a bunch of Spanish and French DVDs from the library and they watch them in the car. The really like Little Pim. I also sometimes read them books in Spanish.
P.E.: The kids at the public school in my neighborhood get P.E. once a week, so I try to get the kids to my gym one to three times a week so they can do P.E. there. They do a lot of typical elementary school things in the child care center, like dodgeball, red light green light, basketball, etc. Jackson also likes riding his bike on the trail near our house and in our neighborhood. He did gymnastics over the summer, and I think he'll do the next level two levels next semester.
Field Trips: I try to do a bunch of field trips, both by ourselves and with our PTA group. We go to botanical gardens, art museums, nature centers, science museums, children's museums, etc. He is really into learning about presidents, and he got to go to Washington D.C. with my mother-in-law.
Social Stuff: I make sure he is around other kids a lot because the first thing out of people's mouths when I told them I was homeschooling was the lack of socialization. He goes to Sunday school and the church nursery on Sundays, child care at my gym for P.E. (and he gets to play with old preschool friends and friends from MOPS), and we have MOPS twice a month.  We do storytimes at the library, and we go on field trips with our PTA. We also do playdates. I would say that he's around other kids...probably five or six days a week.

Kumon books he has finished since we started in August:
Writing Words
Simple Sentences
Weight
Length
Telling Time
Counting Coins
Dollars and Cents
My First Book of Drawing
Multiplication
Amazing Mazes: Animals
Amazing Mazes: Things That Go
Volume
He also did Lollipop Logic (not a Kumon book).
He still begs me for more of those Kumon books. He likes looking at the books on the back, counting the ones he's completed, and planning which ones he will do next. He calls them by the names of the animals on the covers and not what they're about. Another disclaimer: he doesn't do all these Kumon books because he's a high-achiever, he does them because I have a rule that he has to do two Kumon pages per every Mario Kart course he wants to play. I know I wouldn't keep track of a time limit, so this is how I put a limit on the video games.

cooking with his Batman apron

Miscellaneous:

  • All he wants to do is talk about Mario. He won't see Paul for a week, but the second after he greets his Daddy- Mario chat time.
  • He likes to video chat with Paul and take the phone around the house, point it at random things, and ask Paul where the phone is.
  • He ALWAYS has to correct me. Always. If I say, "It's 6:05," he'll say, "No, Mom. It's 6:06."
  • I will not lie and say it is easy to be home with him. Everything I say has to be corrected, negotiated, or whined about. He and Mika are constantly fighting. I thought I'd want to homeschool them for a few years...NOPE! They're both going to regular school next year. I realized that staying home is rewarding but hard, and I have reached my limit. And that it is ok to feel that way about my children. Really, I don't think there is anyone, even an adult, I would want to be around 24/7 and I don't think there is anyone who would want to be around me 24/7. So they will go to school to be with their friends and I will stay home and keep my sanity. And hopefully I'll have a baby next year so that'll take up a lot of my time anyways.



Jackson was Batman and Mika was Ariel (this was at Paul's company Halloween party).

Friday, December 2, 2016

Mika at 3.5 Years

Weight: 36 lbs.
Height: 39"
Clothing size: 4T/5T
Shoe size: about a 10 depending on the brand
Favorite shows: Fairytale Forest, Home
Favorite books: books by Sandra Boynton, Once Upon a Time (a change-the-story book by Nick Sharratt)

Favorite things she says:
sprink-e-your = sprinkler
Miyo = Mario
Jassin = Jackson
Micaewa = Micaela
Hopsital = hospital 
Sanks = thanks
Sowwy Mom, I accident. I accident. = She accidentally did something
Do you want to eat my stinky feets?? as she shoves her foot in your face
Wama Wama Red Pojama = Llama Llama Red Pajama (one of her favorite books)
I sinkin = I'm thinking

Typical Mika- in her "wedding dress" (her flower girl dress) with the crown on (upside down, but insists on doing it her way when I try to fix it) next to her doll house full of baby dolls.

Miscellanous:

  • She likes to look in the mirror and stick her tongue out really far to lick imaginary food while making loud slurping noises. I think this has something to do with that dog thing from Snapchat.
  • I like to snuggle with her when I tuck her in. She'll stroke my hair and say, "You're my sweet gwirl" like I say to her sometimes.
  • This girl is fearless. She enjoys zip-lining and jumping from really tall places. She would ride crazy adult roller coasters if she could.
  • She is so sneaky. If the house is silent, it's probably because she's drawing on herself with markers, eating candy, drawing on the walls, playing in the sink with fifty pumps of soap, etc. I caught her one day putting on my mascara. It was hard to put on the stern mom voice because I was actually really impressed that a three-year-old with no mirror managed to put it on that well.
  • I feel like being around Mika is like being around a drunk college kid all day. I'll go upstairs to go to bed and I'll find her passed out in the hallway holding a plastic hamburger. She'll say random things like, "I wish my skin was paper."


Mika at the vanity table in Pottery Barn Kids combing her hair with a fork.

"School" Stuff:

  • I don't make her sit down and do any formal work/workbooks. I have my dining room set up as a mini preschool room with lots of educational toys and she picks and chooses what she wants to do. She loves to play with her dolls, play with the play kitchen, and pretend to be a baby. It is so sweet to watch her nurturing personality when she plays with dolls and real infants.
  • Math: She can say numbers up to 49 and then she gets caught in a loop from 30-49. She can count out objects up to about 10. She likes using the play cash register and playing with the coins in their coin jar. I also bought her number rocks and counting bears and she loves those. Sometimes she plays games like Hi-Ho! Cherry-o and Unicorn Glitterluck and we work on counting with those.
  • Reading: I don't know which letters she knows. I don't really "test" her like I did Jackson. I would guess that she knows half the alphabet.
  • Fine motor: I don't make her do workbooks. She likes to "write" her name and words on paper and draw. She likes to "write" people letters and mail them. Her scissor skills are really good. She can follow lines and likes to cut paper into confetti.
  • Science: She loves science activities that I do with Jackson. Her favorite is baking soda and vinegar.
  • Art: She loves painting and asks to do it every day.
  • Music: She loves listening to music and singing. She uses the set of kids' musical instruments that I bought.
  • Spanish and French: She watches DVDs in the car, not actually sure how much she gets out of that. I'm not great at teaching this stuff.


We are doing "homeschool preschool" this year, but she's going to an actual preschool next year.

She doesn't seem motivated to learn like Jackson is, so I don't push things on her. At her age, Jackson loved it when I made Montessori activities for him. Mika doesn't seem to care about that stuff. Jackson is really into academic work and Mika is on the creative side. She loves to sing, dance, and paint. She got to take ballet and tap this summer and loved it, so she'll be doing more of those classes in the future.

She wasn't happy I was in the room and got really shy :(


Wednesday, May 18, 2016

Jackson at 5 Years

Weight: 38 lbs.
Height: 43"
Clothing size: 5T
Shoe size: 10/11
Favorite shows: Curious George, Garfield
Hobbies: playing Mario and Mario Kart, collecting sticks, playing with cars and trucks, math

Favorite things he has said:

  • "fastpoke" (He thinks if there is a slowpoke, there must an opposite of that)
  • We were talking about carnivores, herbivores, and omnivores. He said he's an omnivore because he eats Bugles and those come from plants.
  • I was chewing gum and Mika asked what I was doing. I said, "I'm eating gum." Jackson said, "You're not eating gum, you're chewing gum." Sheesh. Always correcting me.



Sleep:
We dropped afternoon naps and now he sleeps from about 7:45-6:15.

Random tidbits:

  • He loves playing Mario on Paul's old N64. He plays it waaaay more than I would like to admit.
  • He afraid of the dark. I send Mika into rooms for him to turn on the light.
  • He is very particular about...everything. He shows some characteristics of childhood OCD, but that is normal and most kids outgrow it. For example, he won't go to bed unless his blanket is totally straight, etc.
  • He is still very focused when he does any kind of activity.
  • His behavior is still pretty good, but he still likes to push my buttons as much as possible. For example, I will tell him to go to his room for time-out and he will go to the bathroom and say he has to pee. We started doing the guidance book 1-2-3 Magic, and it has helped a lot.


Goofing off at the Fernbank Museum of Natural History.

School stuff:
He went to preschool this year on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9-11:30. I want to keep him home for kindergarten, but Paul is not sold on the idea.

Literacy/fine motor: He is reading beginner books, Bob books and similar things. His writing skills are what you would expect for a boy who just turned five. He writes his name in a straight line now instead of putting the letters all over the place. Most of his letters are legible.

He is so proud of his cut-and-paste puzzles.

Science: I just follow his lead on what he's interested in and we do a unit study on that. We've done geography, bugs, the solar system, and dinosaurs. He usually is interested in a unit for about a month.

He loved the T-Rex Cafe. Totally would've bought this mask, but it was $20...

Math: 
He can count past 1000, do double digit addition and subtraction mentally, make up simple multiplication problems and solve them mentally, solve simple division problems mentally (sometimes), and we're working through the Kumon My Book of Multiplication using base ten blocks. He loves Kumon workbooks and begs for more when he finishes one. One of his favorite non-Kumon workbooks is a connect-the-dots book where each one is 1-100. 
He loves playing Math Splash (War, except it has a problem to solve instead of simple a number), and Paul and I realized that he was card counting. 
He can read a digital clock. 
He can do 60-80 piece jigsaw puzzles. 
We started Miquon math because I didn't really know what to do with him anymore. I find it funny that I HATE math, so naturally I have a child who wants to do it until I feel like my brain is melting. 

Of course he has also enjoyed learning about money as birthday money comes in the mail. 
He learned what $10 can buy this day :)

Monday, May 16, 2016

Mika at 3 Years

Weight: 31.5 lbs.
Height:37"
Clothing size: 3T/4T
Shoe size: 8
Favorite shows: Curious George, Garfield
Favorite book: The Bellybutton Book by Sandra Boynton

I may have gone a little overboard with her birthday outfit...

Favorite things she says:
chickmunk- chapstick
gwirl- girl
polka dox- polka dots
bruver- brother
ama-on- Amazon
pecause- because
What I did today? (We talk about what they did at bedtime each night.)
It's 100:45! (Because Jackson is always talking about time, she made up one.)

"Are you my mommy? Are you sure?"
"Yes, I gave birth to you."
"Well, Opa wuv birf and Daddy wuv birf and Mommy wuv birf" etc.
So I think she thinks birth is a present or something.
And then she asks Paul, "Are you my daddy?"
Paul: Yes.
Mika: Are you suuure?
Paul: I hope so.
Me: *big eyeroll*

She also figured out how to click her tongue a few months ago and now likes to do it a lot when talking.

Last day of being two *sniff*

Personality:
She is generally a really happy-go-lucky type of person. She can be a real drama queen, though. I can't differentiate between her cries. Screaming because she fell down and bloodied her knees sounds like screaming from someone saying, "Please don't do that." She is very sensitive and dissolves in tears if you say anything remotely negative. I was the same way when I was little.
Mika, like many girls, has great interpersonal intelligence. She is very in tune with people's emotions and how she should interact with them. Even when she was barely past her first birthday, she would notice if I felt sad and talk to me in a nice low voice and pat my back. She is very social and loves talking to strangers.

She also likes making my life as hard as possible when doing fun activities. 

Sleep:
I nixed afternoon naps because she wouldn't fall asleep until 10 or 11 p.m. That especially worried me because I'm a night owl and I've been one for as long as I can remember. I don't want her to be like me, I want her body to fall asleep at normal times. She usually falls asleep between 7:30 and 8 and sleeps for about 12 hours.

Potty Training:
I started training the day she turned two and a half. She was mostly day trained a month later. Another month and she was mostly trained for both day and night, but with a few accidents a week when she woke up. She hasn't had an accident since two weeks before her birthday.

She went to a Daddy-Daughter dance and had a blast. She talks 
about going "dancin in a pwetty dress" all the time.

Food:
This girl LOVES eating. She should compete in toddler eating contests. I can't believe she doesn't look like a sumo wrestler. She will eat anything, even any veggie I give her. She especially loves chicken, berries, fruit, brussels sprouts, and asparagus. Sometimes she will sit there and eat a pound of berries or strawberries or asparagus in addition to a chicken quarter or the like.

Clothes:
She can dress herself. The clothes might get put on backwards and/or inside out- but hey, I don't care. It's nice to be able to send her upstairs to go get dressed without having to go with her.

When she first started dressing herself all the time, she would give bows.


Miscellaneous stuff:
  • I don't really sit down and "teach" her like I did/do with Jackson because she's not really interested in that stuff. Jackson was/is intensely interested in math, science, and literacy activities. Mika just wants to dance to music or bop around the house playing with dolls. Which is perfectly fine with me, I'm not going to push anything on her.
  • She is obsessed with Hello Kitty. She'll say things like, "Helicopter! I love helicopters! I love a Hello Kitty helicopter!" She wants to go to a Hello Kitty preschool. I printed out some Hello Kitty preschool materials (puzzles, matching games, etc.) so that when I'm working with Jackson and Mika demands "homework" she has something to do. She also told me she wants our house to be a Hello Kitty house.
  • She looooooves babies. She will go up to them and modify her speech to baby talk and her facial expressions to be very exaggerated. I have lost her in stores only to find her stalking moms with babies.
  • She loves helping me with housework. She especially loves vacuuming, sweeping, mopping, and washing dishes. If only this enthusiasm would last another fifteen years.
  • She is a stereotypical girl and loves dresses, shoes, handbags, hair bows, and anything pink. She loves taking care of baby dolls.
She refused to put any color but pink in her basket.